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What if... Have you ever played
this out in your head after a traumatic event? Perhaps you had an
argument with someone then later started asking yourself, "What if...
I
had said, 'I am sorry' rather than all those hateful things?" Or maybe
you were involved in an auto accident and later found yourself asking,
"What if... I had waited another second before pulling out?" This is an
excellent exercise for anyone to go through. It will help reassure
yourself that you made the best choice at the time or it will help to
take a better path the next time.
There have been serious issues of
violent acts on school campuses of late and it would serve schools,
communities and law enforcement well to ask ourselves, "What if..."
A young man died at a school
recently. It received much press and air time as such events will. The
initial reports have been voices of anger, grief, resentment,
accusations and even self serving. As the dust settles and the
emotions wane, it would be good if we looked at all the information
that was available before the tragedy and try to determine if it was
possible to see it coming. As you read this article keep in mind that
there is no attempt to assess blame. The only focus is prevention. By
careful examination of one incident, future tragedies can be avoided.
What if... a mother knew her son was having trouble
dealing with a recent break-up between her and his Dad, even thought
they were back together for now.
What if... a dad knew his son was having difficulty
in school and had run away from home several times.
What if... a school employee
had heard this student threaten to blow up a school bus, but dismissed
it because she knew he did not have a bomb.
What if... the police knew this
student from several encounters, all small but escalating in
frequency.
What if... a student's brother knew
that he was fascinated with guns and death and had modified a pellet
pistol to look real.
What if... one of the few friends this
student has, knew that he was talking about suicide and dying.
What if... the counselor knew this
student was being picked on by others and that he had transferred to
another school after an altercation then returned.
What if... other students at the
school knew this student was talking about suicide almost daily.
Unfortunately all of the above are
true statements about a real student who committed suicide at his
school. There was danger that he might also kill other students. His
chosen method of death was to force the police to shoot him. It would
seem that there must have been some way to see how desperately this
child needed help. All of the information above was available but in
disjointed slices of isolated tid-bits rather than as a composite.
What if... the school had a
system to observe early warning signs and a trained team who could
assess the student in an objective manner to determine if he is in
need of immediate intervention.
What if... the school had a decision
tree that would show what actions to take and what services were
available that was based on Nation Research.
What if...
schools in the USA, Canada & Europe had been utilizing
this National and International program with great success.
Keys To Safer Schools.com can provide
the training to your school to establish such a program. It is called
Assessing the Potentially Dangerous Student. Contact Keys Today to
avoid another violent tragedy. What if...the next suicidal or
homicidal student is on your campus or in your classroom.
If
you have any comments or questions please Email us at keys@keystosaferschools.com.
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